Men's Study: The Men We Need

The world needs real men, real bad.

But here's the problem: while we know what men are not supposed to be, it's not clear to us what masculinity looks like when men are at their absolute best.

Into our cultural confusion, The Men We Need paints a witty, honest, refreshingly specific, and compelling picture of what men are designed by God to be. Combining depth and humor, Brant Hansen calls for men of all interests and backgrounds (including avid indoors men like himself) to make key decisions to set them apart, including:

• protecting the vulnerable
• being ambitious about the right things
• choosing today who you will become tomorrow
• taking responsibility for your own spiritual life

This 3-week Men’s Study is a great way to take a simple step to get involved. Look forward to challenging teaching, great discussions, and times to connect with other men like you who want to grow in their faith.

Cost: $30 includes the book and three breakfasts/dinners OR $20 for just the three breakfasts/dinners.

Pick a day that works for you: Monday evenings 6 - 7:30 p.m. or Friday mornings 6:30 - 7:45 a.m.

One Read. One Walk. An Invisible Thread

Do you want to connect with others while enjoying the outdoors? We're hitting the trail this summer, combining reading and walking. Before our walk, we'll read An Invisible Thread. A chance encounter between a busy executive and a young boy in need leads to a life-changing friendship. When Laura Schroff stops to help Maurice one day, she has no idea that a simple act of kindness will lead to a lifelong bond that changes both their lives. Heartwarming and deeply moving, this book reminds us of the power of compassion, connection, and the unseen threads that bring people together.

Be advised that this book may contain some mature language and content.

Crossing Twenties Summer Study: Dying to Live

In the upside-down kingdom of Jesus, death isn’t the end—it’s the beginning. Through surrender, sacrifice, and even suffering, God brings new life. When we die to pride, comfort, and control, we make room for resurrection power. When we lay down our lives, we discover the fullness of His. 

Join us for four Wednesday nights this summer as we look at the story of a God who brings life out of death. Each week, we’ll start with dinner and stay after to hang out and have dessert. Childcare is available, and we’ve got a few fun surprises in store as well!

Cost is $20 for all four weeks.

The World Is Too Small: The Life and Times of Mother Cabrini

Follow Mother Cabrini’s incredible journey from a small Italian village to founding schools, hospitals, and orphanages across the world. This book brings to life the remarkable journey of Mother Cabrini.

With unwavering faith and determination, she overcame countless obstacles to serve immigrants and the poor. A compelling read, this biography celebrates the life of a woman whose boundless compassion and tireless work left a lasting impact on the world.

We’ll read, discuss and watch the powerful 2024 movie about Cabrini’s life.

Men's Night at Logboat

Come hang out with Crossing Men for a fun summer night of brews and dudes. Logboat’s outdoor space is a great spot to relax, enjoy conversations, and play some lawn games. All men are welcome - feel free to invite friends. Light snacks will be provided. Drinks on you. 

Crossing Cars

Come check out some great cars (classic, exotic, and contemporary), have a cup of coffee, and get to know other men in the Columbia area who share your automotive enthusiasm. You don’t have to have a supercar to display. Feel free to show your car and invite a friend. We'll gather at the main Crossing parking lot on the second Saturday of each month. 

Questions? Email Scott.

Doing Life With Your Adult Children: Keep Your Mouth Shut and the Welcome Mat Out

Navigating the changing dynamics of parenting adult children can be challenging, but it’s also an opportunity to build a deeper, more fulfilling relationship. With wisdom and warmth, Burns offers insightful advice on setting boundaries, offering guidance without overstepping, and keeping connections strong—even when life takes unexpected turns. This book is a must-read for any parent looking to foster respect, love, and lifelong friendship with their adult children.

Waiting Isn't A Waste: The Surprising Comfort of Trusting God in the Uncertainties of Life

Waiting can feel frustrating and uncertain, but it is never wasted when we trust God’s plan. Vroegop delves into six key aspects of “waiting”:

1. Acknowledging that it’s often hard
2. It’s common
3. It’s biblical
4. It’s slow
5. It’s commanded
6. It’s relational

He encourages readers to lean on Christ during uncertain times, offering wisdom and peace. This book is a comforting companion for anyone seeking to deepen their faith and find purpose amidst life’s pauses.

Dads + Kids: Camp and Float

As dads, one of the best things we can do with our kids is make lasting memories together that connect us with Jesus and each other. This camp and float trip is an opportunity for you and your elementary school kids to make great memories together as you tent camp or stay in a cabin and then float trip down the Meramec River - along with other dads and kids!

No camping or floating experience is necessary; we'll learn together! Look forward to s'mores around the campfire, games, meals together, devotionals, meaningful discussions to connect with your kids, and time to build relationships with other dads.

Options: tent camping or cabins, one night or two nights*, one kid or multiple kids. Boating options: kayak, canoe, or raft. 

Cost: $175 - $295 based on options

We will meet on Friday at 5 p.m. and return by 5 p.m. on Saturday. 

*stay a 2nd night (Saturday, June 28) for no additional charge

Humble Moms: How the Work of Christ Sustains the Work of Motherhood

Motherhood is beautiful and rewarding, but it can also be exhausting and overwhelming. With warmth and wisdom, Wetherell reminds mothers that they are not alone in their daily sacrifices and struggles—Jesus, the ultimate servant, meets them in their exhaustion and carries them with his grace. Through biblical truths and personal reflections, Humble Moms offers refreshment for the soul, pointing mothers back to Christ as their strength and sustainer. This book is an invitation to rest in him while embracing the beautiful, humbling work of motherhood.

Dwell Differently: A Crossing Women's Conference

Join Crossing Women for an encouraging, fun morning! We'll hear from author, speaker, and co-founder of Dwell Differently, Natalie Abbott. She'll help us see how the simple practice of memorizing God's Word gives us freedom from negative thinking, renews our minds, and deepens our relationship with God.

The morning will include live music and two speaker sessions with time for discussion. We'll end our time enjoying lunch together. Invite a friend or family member (age 13+).

Men's Night: Pickleball and Pizza

Let's play pickleball! We reserved the courts and we'll have pizza. No experience is necessary - if you don't already play, we will have people show you how! If you have a paddle or extras, please bring them. This will be a great night together to get to know other men from The Crossing. 

Meet at the Columbia Sports Fieldhouse: 4251 Phillips Rd, Columbia, MO. Pizza and drinks will be provided. 

Registration is $10, which covers dinner and courts. You can pay online, or use the code “CASH” to pay at the event.

Men As Allies Breakfast (True North + Crossing Men)

Men as Allies is True North + Crossing Men’s campaign and fundraiser breakfast to involve men in preventing domestic violence and advocating for victims. As men, we can work together to change the social discourse by becoming influential bystanders — bystanders who hold other men accountable for their actions. This means that women do not have to shoulder alone the community’s responsibility to end violence … they have Men As Allies.

Doors open at 6:30 a.m. for breakfast, and the program will begin at 7:00.

If you are interested in attending or sponsoring a table, please contact Sarah Butler.